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The Virtual Midwife was created to meet the increasing need for professional advice online and has enabled me to support hundreds of families around the world to enjoy their pregnancy and have empowering birth experiences.
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Karen taught me about “holding space” before I even knew it was a thing. The lessons I learned from her altered the course of my life. My pregnancy and birth experience was so amazing that it inspired me to become a doula.
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Changing the Words, you use to Get the Outcome you Desire
I had a question on the Live Pain Webinar last week that has been on my mind since then and I wanted to share with you.
YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF PAIN
I was talking about the importance of RE FRAMING the words you use during labor. Words like PAIN that have associations to something being wrong or needing to be fixed.
The pain of labor is an indication that everything is right and working. And when you understand what causes it and that it is really a sensation - you can choose what you would like to call it and how you will manage it.
THE HOSPITAL AND MEDICAL STAFF UNDERSTANDING OF PAIN
However, when you go into the hospital, you will more than likely be faced with these words again and they will be used repeatedly in a way that suggests pain and suffering and offers you relief from this suffering. The power of suggestion may influence your own preparation and state of mind negatively.
YOU NEED TO BE PREPARED FOR THIS
So here is my suggestion. Make a list of all the words that "trigger" an anxious response. Words like "pain" and "contraction" and "labor" ......(what are your words?)
Now replace those words with a word of your own. A word that makes sense to you and triggers a response of calm acceptance.
HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES
Pain could be changed to sensation, feeling, intensity, power......
Contraction could be changed to surge, wave, flow, tightening.....
Labor could be changed to process, journey, meeting my baby......
DO YOU SEE HOW THIS WORKS?
Because here's the thing. No matter how many times I tell you to think of it as sensation rather than pain, there will be articles, videos, and Instagram stories talking about it and referring to it as pain. It is up to YOU to constantly change the words in your mind. When you hear the word pain, immediately you replace it with your own word. This is a mental exercise and it starts RIGHT NOW.
SO WHAT ARE YOUR WORDS AND HOW WILL YOU CHANGE THEM?
If you missed the class and have no idea what I am banging on about you can watch it by clicking here (it's free to watch)
event.webinarjam.com/register/18/2zn4ou9
When you understand the pain - you can manage the pain
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My approach to pregnancy is holistic and natural, honoring women and birth, and giving the power back to you, the mother. You deserve the best and you deserve to be in full control of your body before, during and after the birth. I approach each and every mother with humility, patience and integrity...A powerful sound meditation to use during labor. The steady drumbeat is accompanied by positive affirmations to connect with your baby as you flow with the surges of labor. Breath sounds, soothing chants and gentle reminders to work with your body and your baby. Drumming courtesy of Calm Whale. Vocals Karen Wilmot.
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Book Your Appointment with The Virtual Midwife Karen Wilmot - Consulting/Business Services
thevirtualmidwife.setmore.com
My approach to pregnancy is holistic and natural, honoring women and birth, and giving the power back to you, the mother. You deserve the best and you deserve to be in full control of your body before, during and after the birth. I approach each and every mother with humility, patience and integrity...imagine having your own personal midwife available 24/7? Click here to find out how you can
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